Invictus

I think we've got a very two-dimensional view of what masculinity is, of what strength is, what a guy needs to do.
Ncuti Gatwa
Actor

Approach

Explore & Co-Create

The aim of this event is to provide participants with a set of tools and experiences that they can use in everyday life to help them improve their own mental health and that of those around them. 

Some of these tools will be simple and tried and tested, such as active listening and open communication. Others will be specific to that group. We see this event as a workshop where new attitudes, understandings and relationships are forged to further the work. 

We are explorers in this setting, and our aim is to create together, and share knowledge and experience to provide improved health and happiness for all. 

Process

“Invictus” is an event designed to support managers and individuals alike make positive contributions to the improvement of men’s mental health. This work has been developed with Marie Graham from the Wellness Project CIC, and in partnership with Greater Manchester Combined Authority. The work is also informed by previous work on trauma informed workplaces undertaken with A Brilliant Thing CIC and a partnership of practitioners and organisations. 

The phrase ‘Invictus’ – meaning undefeated or unconquerable –  is a reference to the poem by Wiliam Ernest Henley. The word was also used by Clint Eastwood in his 2009 film about Nelson Mandela’s involvement in the 1995 rugby World Cup. These are images and names synonymous with male culture in many forms. There is the director, Clint Eastwood, the quintessential old school alpha male. Then Morgan Freeman, an older man but filled with vigor and humous. Freeman plays Mandela, a man who has become a metaphor himself for fighting for one’s own values for the benefit of all. Finally, Matt Damon who represents a new type of masculinity emerging into the present day.

We also draw on the work of Robert Bly and his seminal work ‘Iron John’ which explores the development of masculinity through the 20th century. 

We use a mixture of story telling, discussion and practical activities to create a space where a toolkit for improvement is co-created. All involved will have an investment in the final take away. 

Because each event is different we cannot say here what the toolkit will consist of. But what we can say is that we work collaboratively and will both lead and be led over the course of the event. 

We cover the following four areas at the event. We have also posed four questions here for you to consider:

Male Identity

So much has changed around the identity of men in society over the last 50 years. Traditional tasks, activities and roles have changed, been eroded and even disappeared completely.

How do we create a new identity for men in the 21st Century which encapsulates bot the modern, the progressive and the traditional?

Mental Health

There are many taboos, stereotypes, myths and stigmas surrounding mental health and some are specific to men.

Behaviors originally intended to protect us, can become redundant and sometimes harmful in themselves. 

What is the male perspective of mental health?

A Culture of Change

Creating a culture of change is a long game. These changes will not happen overnight, but there have been great advancements in how we think about mental health.

Phrases like 'it's okay to not be okay' are now used more commonly. A culture of communication is emerging to support improvement.

How can we nurture continual improvement in everyone's mental health?

Doing the Work

We will co-create a set of actions to take away from this event. We also provide a 6 week follow up call to ensure that this process is being put in place.

Tackling mental health together is a commitment and it is vital that the learning we undertake in the Small Boat event transfers to the wider world.

How do we most effectively keep the momentum of learning and growth?

Invictus

by William Ernest Henley

Out of the night that covers me,
      Black as the pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
      For my unconquerable soul.
 
In the fell clutch of circumstance
      I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
      My head is bloody, but unbowed.
 
Beyond this place of wrath and tears
      Looms but the Horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
      Finds and shall find me unafraid.
 
It matters not how strait the gate,
      How charged with punishments the scroll,
I am the master of my fate,
      I am the captain of my soul.

Men's Retreats

Would you like to get away from the stress of work, the city, commuting, traffic, the noise? 

Who wouldn’t right?

Driftwood Studio also provide men’s weekend retreats designed to help you back to a place of peace and connection with nature. Men have a magic to their nature as well – it doesn’t all have to be fast cars and first class aspirations. There are huge benefits to be had by getting back to something simpler, less cluttered where you can find time to be, share and enjoy the company of brothers. 

Our retreats are for a maximum of ten people. To arrange a team weekend or a group event get in touch. 

Benefits

  • Stress Reduction
  • Mental Clarity
  • Emotional Release
  • Connection with Nature
  • Camaraderie and Brotherhood
  • Self-Reflection
  • Physical Rejuvenation
  • Skill Development
  • Escape from Digital Overload
  • Renewed Sense of Purpose